Ben: 2 days ago we paid a visit to Stansted Park, a charming and grand estate that very much reflected the ‘Englishness’ we want to demonstrate in our wedding.
Initially we were very impressed and excited to get in and have a look around (particularly because the rain was so torrential). On getting inside the receptionist was faintly puzzled to see us, she called the lady in charge of weddings with an air of suspicion while we waited.
Online and through phone conversations we had seen that the venue could hold the 110 guests we hope to invite, so we were somewhat surprised to find that the house itself is capable of seating 50. More than that may be seated in the servant’s quarters in the basement or in a marquee provided by us. However majestic and beautiful the upstairs would be our wedding party would only be able to enjoy it for a short time before being shepherded underground and the doors being locked. Not great, really.
a pretty but useless room for 50+ guests
After being shown around the wedding dungeon we were given a few pamphlets and a contract to sign (once the date for the wedding, which we had already confirmed over the phone, was deemed available), we were then summarily shown the door. No tea or further comment, no ‘sit down and have a think about it’, just ‘that’s your lot, see you at the wedding! Parked over there are you? Better be on your way.’ Thanks Stansted Park for the understanding you showed regarding our busy schedules, we probably won’t be back.
a short video taken at Stansted
a short video taken at Stansted
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On Saturday we’re going to visit Goodwood House (a place Nicola’s friend Carolyn recommended), and that is possibly the last venue we’re gonna see. Seeing too many places will take a lot of time and cost a lot of money and give us tough choices to make. So far Rhinefield still tops our list, but Goodwood might be the strongest competitor ever, judging by its stunning pictures and breath-taking cost (£6,000 just to hire the venue! Even that is just half the summer price).
However, they spelt my name wrong on the welcoming pack which has tremendously put me off (Ben has spelt out for them over the phone).
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